Re your question about oil being present at the seal.....
If you have the crankcase oil level ABOVE the center dot of the fill window, you will have oil setting in the seal area, if it didn't run out when you pulled the transmission... BTDT.
When I pulled my trans the 1st time my oil level was near the top(max line) of the window, as the trans came out, so did the oil. It drained out till the level was just at the top of the dot. Then of course as expected, a little more oil came out when I pulled the seal out.