Hi Johnny and rbm, thanks for your answers.
Yes, part of my problem is too low and narrow bars with quite a long reach to them ( I'm 5.7 and getting shorter every day ), second big part is my "sit and beg" position on my old brits I got used to during last 15 years. With my Trident is ridiculous, my feet stick forward 5 ", like on current HD.
So I found Master Yoda Position a good read, but it was talking about position I remember from my youth when I used to ride old BMW from before the 2 war :).
Rbm, I believe your solution with C style bars would be the best solution for me as well, what was involved in this conversion ?
I have to do something to my seat also, It's perhaps little to high, but mainly too wide in the place where my tights are, second problem is too slippery making my wife sliding into my back when I brake.